The Raayved is screaming that it's disgusting to look or kiss "that place", and you're transgressing "Baal Tishoksu". The problem is that the whole sex business is already disgusting, and if God didn't make a special lust for this nobody in his right mind would be attracted to "that place" to begin with, like I showed you in Sep 14, 2012.
So it's only a matter of "degree"; how much are you attracted to "that place"? But the bottom line is that you're already attracted to "that place". (See Apr 17, 2016: Aug 14, Sep 15, 18, 2014)