I looked up "Eros" in Wikipedia and it's all about Greek love. Does Kats know that in the second temple the Greek law was that every kallah had to have sex with the Hegmon before she got married (Chuppa)? (See the Rambam on Chanuka) AND WHAT ABOUT THE PSYCHOLOGICAL DAMAGE THAT THE HEGMON DID TO THE KALLAH???? Go kiss the Greeks and Avi Weiss!!!
If you look at Ksubos 3b you see that the kallah was already married (Keddushin) before she went to the Hegmon.