Bawer Aksal was born to like women. He was just born like that. He has every right in the world to run after his lusts just like the gays have a right to do whatever tickles them. The main goal in life today is to pleasure yourself. if you have mixed seating, and you have a half naked girl sitting next to you, what do you expect? You want me to hold myself back? NO! I don't want to! Today's generation is not a 'hold back' generation. (Except for the Modern Orthodox, who use tremendous self control, and wear two pairs of underwear).