Key Yekach Ish Isha; (If a man buys a wife for himself) (Devorim 22, 13). "That she is bought to him to do whatever he wants with her", like having anal sex. (Ran, Nedorim 20b) (Tosfos, Yevamos 34b) A wife is like a piece of meat. You can eat it any way you want. Baked, broiled, roasted, cooked, fried, grilled, sauteed, etc. (Nedorim, Ibid). I think the Talmud is advising us to keep sex from becoming boring. (Click Feb 12, 12)
"If it was only an issue of putting her on top and him on bottom, for that she would not have gone to Rebbe to complain. What does she care? But the issue was that he did anal sex, and it hurt her." (From Tosfos, Yevamos 34b)
But if not for this, had the issue been her on top, Tosfos would not have had a problem with Rebbe's answer that the Torah said it's OK and he's allowed to do it, even though it's not the normal way, and it's one of the 10 curses that Chavah got (Her on bottom) (according to one Sheeta, Eruvin 100b). After all, anal sex is also not the normal way, but you're allowed to do it once in a while.
Hay dude! The Torah is called "Toras Emes", and this is the plain truth. If you don't like it Rabbi Dov Linzer you can get the hell attah here, you and your ladies! You're not trying to understand Torah, you and your ladies. Your just trying to screw around with the Torah to fit your feminist agenda.