"Oy lee miyotzry, Oy lee miyitzry". Oy lee miyotzry if I go after the yitzry. And if I don't go after him Oy lee miyitzry that he tortures me with bad thoughts. (Rashi Beginning of Brachos 61) And bad thoughts is worse for the health then doing the actual sin (Rashi beginning of Yoma 29)
So if you're having a hard time in life, now you know the rest of the story. Especially today that you can't even move without being bombarded by lecherous media or women dressed like that.